adamsimon: Some self-assessment and a personal code

What’s most important to me in life? Kiri and Hunter then adventure and fun
Are there activities I used to do for fun that I no longer do? Is someone interfering and am I resentful because of it? i used to game, karaoke, flirt, and break rules. Kiri stops me from doing these things. I used to be resentful, but I’m not anymore. I’m happier now.
Are there valuable friendships with men I’ve let slip away? Phil, Jaron, Tuan, Sean, Donny
Where am I currently having problems (unhappy, frustrated, sad, angry, resentful) in my life, and did compromising myself—and what’s important to me—contribute to my feelings and/or the situation? Clutter (yes), shoulder disability (no), missing family (no)
What dreams have I abandoned? Criminal empire, cop, professor
If I’m going to be the man I want to be, what will I have to do differently? Nothing.

Non-negotiable, Unalterable Terms (N.U.T.s)

I put my wife first.

I give all that I can to my son.

I think before I speak and I speak with a purpose in mind.

I pretend to know less so I can relearn in a different way.

I do not get conned.

I talk to my wife about my challenges.

My shoulder is badly damaged and I don’t strain it.

I do what I want when there’s something I want to do.

My mission in life is to find excitement and adventure. SUSCITO!

Values

Adam Simon’s Personal Code of Conduct

I am a family man. I act with consideration to my family at the forefront of my thinking.
I know myself. I keep track of my body and mind and act humble but truthful to who I am.
My life is to be enjoyed while I have it. Every moment not spent living is spent dying.
I practice mindfulness. I live in the moment and am present in the moment without thought to past or future.
I understand the difference between a barrier and a hurdle. I do not let hurdles change my course.
I am transcendent. I do not let the circumstance of my time, experience, or location dictate my philosophy or culture.

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